Friday, November 16, 2007

New City, New Life

I have moved! It's truly an exciting adventure. I can't wait for all the neat people I am going to meet and all cool things I am going to be able to do. At this point I am confronted with the epitome of the quarter-life crisis. Where do I fit in? I have been researching ways to meet people and get involved. Since I am not so into the "bar crawl," I have to find other outlets to connect. I dread "singles" groups. So often it's like you are being interviewed to see whether you are "spouse-worthy." All I am asking for is people to have fun with. I have been dying to go ice skating. I used to love to ice skate, but I don't really know anyone to go with me here. I guess I could go by myself, but that is not so fun. I know the companions will come with time, but I want them NOW! (Insert tantrum here)
I was so fortunate to have several great friends from high school come into town to visit me last weekend. It was such a great opportunity for me to explore my new city and enjoy the company of old friends. We experienced the "night life" (I have been using quotes a lot, probably incorrectly), we went canoeing, and played Frisbee in a BEAUTIFUL park. Oh yeah, we also tried slack-lining too (I stink). I know there are tons of other gems in this city, but I need to find new people to explore them with me.
Does this sound too negative? Life is actually really good right now. I am not sure I have ever felt so blessed. Since my social life has declined I have more time for quiet times, introspection, and even rest. I have been really encouraged by calls from friends from around the world and now I have time to talk. It's great. So if you need someone to talk to, I am the person to call. :)
Essentially, at this point I just long for fellowship. I was warned once not to pray for patience because God will make you practice it, but I guess it is what I really need.